If you’re feeling stressed out, then one of the best ways to unwind is to have the best sex of your life! But not all of us get to enjoy the ultimate sexual experience that we need and deserve. How can you have better sex? It all comes down to kicking up your sexual knowledge a notch!
Use good lubricants
When you’re young, you don’t give lubricants a second thought. As you get a little older, things change. Using the right lubes will make it easier for you to open up and just enjoy the moment. If you want to enhance the way you have sex, choosing good lubricants can pay off more than you realize. It’s super important to make sure your lubes are compatible with your goals. Make sure you’re using spermicides if you are trying to avoid pregnancy and steer clear of oil based lubes for use with condoms. Most importantly, remember, lubes can’t prevent the transmission of STDs!
Try out new sexual positions
The Missionary position may be your favorite, but it’s also boring as f%$&! Doing the same stuff over and over again isn’t just insanity in life. What you want to do is to try out some new sexual positions whenever possible. Each session can be new and exciting. It’s a little like trying out wine. Sometimes it will be bitter, sometimes sweet and sometimes…perfect. 69, the candle and doggy style are just the beginning. Live a little!
Change your environment
Ideally, you want to use your bed only for sex and sleep. Stop eating on your bed or even working from home. Your bed should be associated only with relaxation. Once you do that, you will find that having sex in your bed will be a lot more rewarding. Also, try to create a relaxing environment as well. Some aroma therapy oils or scented candles never hurt anyone.
Keep anger out of the bedroom
Day to day life might be frustrating, but when you want to have sex, throw that out the window. You want to be happy, and you want to enjoy life. It will be tricky at first, but it’s always important to step outside your boundaries and work hard to achieve all the your goals…sexual goals that is!
Try out adult toys (we like the Sybian, obviously!)
If you want to make sex a bit better, we recommend toys. A solid adult toy can bring a new dimension to your sexual experiences. Whether you enjoy them or not, it’s up to you to try and find out. It might take experimenting with a variety of toys and equipment to find exactly what trips your trigger.
In the end, there are plenty of ways you can make sex more meaningful, exciting and fun. You just have to be open to it! Take your time, don’t rush it and keep the negative emotions outside your head and your bedroom.