As much as we love sex, it can get, stale after a while. Years and years, or for some, even weeks of the same ol’ can put a strain on your sex life. Maybe you’ve put on weight, are stressed or have two kids screaming in the background, whatever the reason, sometimes sex takes a back seat! Here’s how you can make one day put the fire back in your furnace.
Sexy Saturdays Spice Up Your Sex Life
We’re not just talking about going to a new restaurant, an R rated sex fest movie and having a romp, we’re talking a planned event. Don’t depend on your partner to do it. In fact, it may even be better if your partner doesn’t even know you’re doing it.[clickToTweet tweet=”Years and years of the same ol’ can put a strain on your sex life. Have a Sexy Saturday instead!” quote=”Years and years of the same ol’ can put a strain on your sex life. Have a Sexy Saturday instead!”]
The Prep
Pick Your Day
Extremely important. Saturday is best, you’ll be fresh, open to a long night and can probably palm off the kids on someone. Give yourself all night and the next morning.
Dump The Devices
If both of you are constantly checking Facebook, email and texting others, your day is already shot. Leave your devices at home or put them in airplane mode. No distractions.
Make Your Food
Buy/prep the food you’re bringing two days before your adventure. Keep in mind any spoilage potential. Get everything packed in a cooler first thing before you leave.
The Plan
Breakfast
It’s easy to think “breakfast in bed,” but we promise that idea won’t get you very far. Most people gorge on a carb heavy breakfast and then fall asleep. Have breakfast on the way to your adventure. Raw apple Zuchini bread is a great way to start the day without the massive sugar spike
Afternoon Adventure – Part 1
Pick an activity that you’ve not done before. The key here is to work up a sweat, while having a good time. If you can find something that neither of you have done before, even better. Take a rock climbing lesson, a surfing lesson scuba diving. If all those sound a little out of your budget range, rent a couple of bikes for the afternoon or go for a hike somewhere different.
Lunch Al Fresco
Before you head out, pack a light lunch for the two of you. Go simple with cheese, salami, fresh fruits, crackers and wine. If you’re in warmer weather, don’t forget water and lots of it and a blanket to eat on. Music is always a welcome addition, so if you’ve got a small speaker, download Pandora and get your groove on.
Talk
This may sound like a stupid suggestion, but why are you out, if not to bond and communicate? Keep it light and fun. Don’t discuss sensitive topics like work, money or kids. Talk about your next vacation, things you are looking forward to, good memories.
Afternoon Adventure – Part 2
Head to a hotel. It doesn’t have to be the Ritz, it just has to be clean and different. You want to put yourself in a distraction free environment. Going home might be the cheap way of ending the day, but it will also put you in autopilot.
When you get to the hotel, have a pre-packed suitcase for your partner with a change of clothes for the next day.
SeXtras
Pack some toys and lingerie. Forget your normal comfort zone, take things a little further. If your partner has a fantasy, do your best to fulfill it. Now is your chance for a little adventure. The entire point of the evening is to be spontaneous!
Don’t forget flameless candles!
Snacks and Booze
Bring chocolates, fruits and booze. Not enough to get completely hammered, but enough to get tipsy.
Have a Plan
Don’t just hop into bed with a ball gag and handcuffs and expect your partner will know what to do next. Think it through. Visualize what you want to happen and how you can guide the moment there. Don’t be selfish either, think about what would be sexy and fun for both of you. Everyone should get a taste of what they love!
The Morning After
Spend the next morning at a nice breakfast spot you have pre-selected. It’s one last chance to spend time together before getting back “to life.” Once you’ve had a sexy saturday, we guarantee your sex life will never be the same!
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